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long overdue update [Jul. 13th, 2007|08:21 am]
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I haven't posted here for a while, I'm so busy trying not to miss anything on the vast theatre that is LJ that I neglect my own internal dialogue. Story of my life. I went to bed after 1am and was up before 7, so today will be a splendid day.
Some people are stuck up and a little too politically correct for me. I, personally, think it's ok to make inappropriate jokes and references as long as it's in the spirit of fun. How fucking careful do we always have to be anyway.
The world needs to lighten up.
Sorry for the cryptic-ness, but god forbid a fight ensues.
I'm jewish and italian, have at me if you'd like.
[info]guessmyweight is starting to annoy me. Why I'm even a member I don't know, except to defend a friend or two here and there when something bitchy is said, but who really cares? "weight obsessed dimwits" is how one other disgruntled member described it. I never post and rarely comment and the community takes up a worthless space in internet-land......but yet i continue to lurk....why?
And who really cares what I think anyway?
I'm going to have to put LJ in a much less prominent position in my life when school starts, along with some of my other......vices. So best to get it all out of my system now, right?
Right.
And......onward.
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From: tenderbeast
2007-07-13 01:50 pm (UTC)

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i think communities like that are the most ridiculous thing in the world.
and yes, lj should be at the bottom of your priority list in life, if it has to be on your list at all. (imo)
[User Picture]From: [info]friedapearl
2007-07-13 02:26 pm (UTC)

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And your opinion is valued, thank you. :)
From: shirochillasama
2007-07-13 02:31 pm (UTC)

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It's ok to make a joke but it's not ok to make it in ignorance. Probably.
[User Picture]From: [info]friedapearl
2007-07-13 02:41 pm (UTC)

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You are absolutely right. That's why i try to watch what i say, even though I like to laugh at what others say. So, I 'm kind of a coward, I guess.
[User Picture]From: [info]girlwithwheels
2007-07-13 02:55 pm (UTC)

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I know why I'm on guessmyweight.
To see what bodies of certain heights and weights look like, so I have somewhat of a gauge of how my body would look at higher BMIs/lower BMIs.


:P I am in that community solely to look at pictures after I see their "reveal" weight!!!
[User Picture]From: [info]friedapearl
2007-07-13 03:07 pm (UTC)

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I think it's pure masochism on my part.
[User Picture]From: [info]beggingforalift
2007-07-13 03:15 pm (UTC)

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I deleted that community recently. I deleted more, I can not stand to look at tall skinny happy tanned girls, (just an example, I can't stand to look at thin people now anyway) when I'm in this condition. but sorry for just coming in and posting, it's not even interesting or anything, but I added you if that's ok. you don't have to add me back though cause my posts are about nothing..
[User Picture]From: [info]friedapearl
2007-07-13 04:17 pm (UTC)

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I should delete it, and at least one more....I'll add you back, my posts are often about nothing too.
[User Picture]From: [info]cafe_dulce
2007-07-13 04:59 pm (UTC)

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When I go back to school I am no where near as involved in LJ as I would like. But I think I am going to try to update at least every Friday, unless something big happens of course.
Blah blah blah!
I can't wait to go back to school though.
From: [info]yggdrasill
2007-07-13 05:16 pm (UTC)

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I don't think I've written a real entry in...months. Life is so inconsequential, yet I'm still addicted to this godawful journaling service. :p Anyways, I hope you don't disappear completely. <3
[User Picture]From: [info]friedapearl
2007-07-13 07:15 pm (UTC)

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No, I won't disappear. But I need to get my priorities straight. *sigh* Act like a grownup and everything.
It's good to see that icon.:)
[User Picture]From: [info]dancemaryjane
2007-07-13 05:28 pm (UTC)

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I'm Jewish and people have told me I look italian. hah
[User Picture]From: [info]lakemi
2007-07-14 05:36 am (UTC)

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I'm so un PC in an overly PC town. It's good times. I think people need to lighten up. I call it like I see it. I'm not racist or cruel or anything. Hell, I'm a minority... I'm sure as hell not going to whine about it. Blah.
From: bellasbox
2007-07-16 07:07 pm (UTC)

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Hi, I've read in a couple of communitys that you're going to nursing school. I'm also considering becoming a nurse and was wondering how did you decide that nursing was what you wanted to do? I'd love to know.. if it's not too personal. =)
[User Picture]From: [info]friedapearl
2007-07-18 04:20 am (UTC)

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Sorry this took so long.....One reason was that my sister was a nurse. She was killed last year right when i had started school. Soon after I changed my major.
From: bellasbox
2007-07-19 03:08 pm (UTC)

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Sorry for your loss. Thank you for your response and good luck with nursing school ♥.
[User Picture]From: [info]cigsandcoffeee
2007-07-17 05:24 am (UTC)

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hello! i remember you from the purg community.. i added you as a friend, if that's cool :) and i agree, people are too politically correct these days. seriously, who doesn't enjoy the occasional racist joke? lol.
[User Picture]From: [info]friedapearl
2007-07-18 04:20 am (UTC)

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Adding you back...
[User Picture]From: [info]sweetjaneee
2007-07-20 11:18 pm (UTC)

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Hi honey.
This is a bit random.
But I rememeber seeing your posts on ED communities.
And I went onto my old username, perfectionnn, and I saw you still posting on the purge.
I would just like to say, as a total stranger; I hope you the best in life.
I personally, want you as a person I have never met to get better.
You have been here since I arrived and am still here as I am in recovery.
So really, the best to you love. And hope all is well.
<3
Much love,
Emily
[User Picture]From: [info]friedapearl
2007-07-20 11:59 pm (UTC)

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Thank you so much. I'm happy for you.
[User Picture]From: [info]gigglethrough
2007-07-26 01:10 pm (UTC)

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miss frieda.

how are you?

my mum has offered to pay for me to get my teeth fixed. i am a dental nurse, as you know, and afraid to smile at work because they are so bad. she knows this. and she herself has a full upper denture (false teeth) and constant troubles with her lowers.

i want to take her up on it, because i would feel so much better if i could smile again. but at the same time, my folks aren't rich.

she says it's really important to her. as it is to me.

but then again, i have thought, SO many times when i have stopped myself from killing myself, when my toothaches get too bad, and i can still not afford to stop them, THEN. then, i will have an excuse to kill myself.

but the fact that i HAVEN'T killed myself SO MANY TIMES, makes me think that i must want to live, and that the day my teeth are aching SO badly that i NEED to kill myself, i will be disappointed.

she wants me to pick my favourite dentist at work and get them to send her a quote on what it would cost to fix my teeth.

i want to do it, but i'm AFRAID to do it, and oh so ashamed that i am so tempted to do it and let her pay for it.

i am writing this to you because i know you went through a similar thing recently and i want to know. IS THIS THE RIGHT THING TO DO?

please reply.

my mum was born in 1951. she is a libra. her name is ruth and she has been through so many dramas with me. what if she does this for me and then one day things get too bad and i die anyway.

love gem
[User Picture]From: [info]friedapearl
2007-07-26 03:48 pm (UTC)

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Your mother loves you so much, I can tell by the way you write about her presence in your life. If she's offering, get your teeth fixed darling. It's done wonders for my self esteem, not to mention the blessed absence of discomfort. I STILL have more work to be done, I think my drug use and neglect had as much or more to do with the state of my teeth than my bulimia.

Aaagh a friend just called with an emergency.....I will write more later sweetie.
[User Picture]From: [info]so_unsexxy
2007-07-30 09:52 pm (UTC)

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my Email is Kpalasek@student.umass.edu, please email me with any updates that you have about giggle and if she's okay, I'm worried.