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Happy Birthday Eva [Aug. 11th, 2007|01:11 am]
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My sister Eva would have been 45 years old today (or rather yesterday, I was too sad to think about it all day)

She was beautiful, she was golden, she was good.

I miss her incredibly. I can't find the pics I want to show all of you.
But that's her in my icon.

I talked to my dad today. He was very quiet. He is too old for this kind of pain, he said. We should be preparing for him to go, not blindsiding an old man with our sudden demise. We laughed together, softly over this.

But it's not funny. I don't want him to die, but I suppose i was more accepting of that scenario than Eva being struck down like she was.
So was he.

I'm sad and I miss her.
Good night.
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From: shirochillasama
2007-08-11 08:40 am (UTC)

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Hi lady

Don't be sad.
[User Picture]From: [info]friedapearl
2007-08-11 03:50 pm (UTC)

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Thank you *smiles with a pout*
[User Picture]From: [info]nakedemperor
2007-08-11 10:58 am (UTC)

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i'm sorry free
[User Picture]From: [info]friedapearl
2007-08-11 03:51 pm (UTC)

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I really have her on my mind right now because she was such a wonderful nurse and her council would be valuable at this time.
[User Picture]From: [info]nakedemperor
2007-08-11 06:36 pm (UTC)

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you on aim love?
i'm going to be online (fauxpasdarlin) for the next few hours...be nice to chat?
[User Picture]From: [info]nakedemperor
2007-08-11 07:12 pm (UTC)

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btw, you want to be mod in absque_hoc?
[User Picture]From: [info]friedapearl
2007-08-12 01:10 am (UTC)

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Moi? Do you mean co-mod?
[User Picture]From: [info]nakedemperor
2007-08-12 09:22 am (UTC)

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yeah, co-mod/maintainer type person?

to be fair you don't have to do because requests to join don't get moderated and people who've joined are free to post without moderation...however, the offer is still there and any ideas you have on how to liven the place up are always appreciated :)
[User Picture]From: [info]desecratedbones
2007-08-11 02:19 pm (UTC)

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I'm sorry for your pain and loss, Frieda. There isn't much else I can say or offer except for a listening ear and e-hug if you wish for it.
[User Picture]From: [info]friedapearl
2007-08-11 03:52 pm (UTC)

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I'll take any hug I can get *affection hog snort*
[User Picture]From: [info]desecratedbones
2007-08-11 05:03 pm (UTC)

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I love you. <3 **hugglesquish** I hope you feel better today.
[User Picture]From: [info]talloo
2007-08-11 02:53 pm (UTC)

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Frieda, I have no sage words of comfort or wisdom that can take your pain away. I just want to say that I am so very sorry. My heart goes out to you and your family.
[User Picture]From: [info]friedapearl
2007-08-11 03:52 pm (UTC)

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Thank you. I just miss her so much.
[User Picture]From: [info]perfxcked
2007-08-11 03:07 pm (UTC)

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i saw this way too late, but honey i love you
[User Picture]From: [info]friedapearl
2007-08-11 03:52 pm (UTC)

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No, it was just posted last night. I love you!
[User Picture]From: [info]crissyx3
2007-08-11 08:36 pm (UTC)

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im so pained by your loss.. im so sorry its not easy to lose someone especially a sister.. my older sister passed away about 3 months ago from a drug overdose..

i am soo sorry im sure she was beautiful! =)
[User Picture]From: [info]friedapearl
2007-08-12 12:44 am (UTC)

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Oh i'm so sorry...that is so sad. How old was she if you don't mind my asking? My heart goes out to you and your family.
[User Picture]From: [info]crissyx3
2007-08-12 04:19 am (UTC)

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she was only 22.

thanksyou so much though

im sorry again **hugs!**
[User Picture]From: [info]cafe_dulce
2007-08-12 05:49 am (UTC)

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I am just so sorry Frieda. Everytime you talk about your sister my heart has a new tear in it. It is such a tragedy, but she lives on in you and in your wonderful memories of her. It will never get easier, I am sure of that. *hug*